I remember that Beverly Cleary books were quite popular when I was a child. But I never read any of them. I am not sure why. I didn't learn to read untill 1st grade. However by 3rd grade I was reading books like
Anne of Green Gablesand its sequels. I only had a short window of interest in books at the reading level of Ramona. I do vaguely recall my parents not encouraging me to read Ramona, but they didn't forbid me from reading them.
We read
Henry Hugginsand really enjoyed it. I hope to review that later. But we just finished
Beezus and Ramonalast night, so it is fresh on my mind.
Beezus is nine years old, and her little sister Ramona is four. Ramona is constantly causing chaos in Beezus' life. We did enjoy reading this book. The situations they got into were hilarious at times. But I found myself needing to frequently comment on the story. The ways of Ramona's family definitely differ from our household. I found this occasionally annoying as well. I am glad I am not a part of Ramona's family.
First of all Ramona's behavior is atrocious. She behaves very much like a spoiled two year old. This is often excused because "she is only four". My youngest daughter is three so the idea that that type of behavior is excusable in a four year old doesn't really fly here. I frequently felt the need to point out how the consequences for such behavior would be quite different in our home.
My other concern with the book was the ending's emphasis on conditional love. Now I realize to some extent this might be semantics. But the conclusion of the book is that it is OK for Beezus to not always "love" Ramona. It is not ok for my girls to not "love" each other. I don't always expect them to like each other. And certainly "love" cannot be enforced. But I want my girls to strive to love others unconditionally.
I am glad I read this book with my girls. Even though they are young I want to lay the groundwork for critical thinking. I hope that having briefs discussions about how our views of a situation differ, will prepare my girls to interact with books on a different level. As they grow older I don't want to shield my girls from different ideas, instead I want them to learn to be discerning readers.